What Are Some Questions To Ask A Girl To See If She Loves You?

What Are Some Questions To Ask A Girl To See If She Loves You?

In this article we are going to talk about the What are some Questions to Ask a Girl to See If She Loves You? It is common to get lost in the maze of love. I believe that the concept of love itself is not difficult or complex to understand, rather experiencing it as a human being and processing it is hard. This is because we are complicated creatures, and tend to make things over sophisticated. We do the same with love. Hence why I can’t blame anyone for not knowing what to do. However, that too after a while becomes an excuse. We need to work on improving the different aspects of our lives, just like this one.

What are some Questions to Ask a Girl to See If She Loves You?

People usually come across someone whom they think has feelings for them, but are unsure. It does not necessarily affect their relationship with the other person but it does affect them and their thoughts, which as a result may end up affecting their relationship as well. This article is to help you figure out whether a girl has feelings for you or not, by asking her questions. Many if not all the questions build upon one another. The following are 10 different types of questions that you can ask a girl to see if she loves you –

1. Ask Her If She Loves You

Ask Her If She Loves You

What I am about to say next is a no-brainer. The most basic question that you can ask her is if she loves you. If you have no problems with being direct, this is one of the best questions that you can hope to ask. Straight to the point! Though this is the very first question that I have suggested, it is important that you realize that this question should only be asked depending on where you guys are in your relationship. Despite this question’s ability to present you with slap-bang answers, you need to be careful of how your relationship might be affected. Since the question isn’t a covert inquiry, if for some reason or the other her answer is no, your interactions may become more awkward (given that you like her but she doesn’t like you).

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2. Ask If She Loves Anyone

Ask If She Loves Anyone

This question is less overt in nature since you aren’t directly asking her what you want to know. Nor are you putting her on the spot by asking such a direct question (referring to the previous point). Even though it won’t fetch you an answer that directly answers your question, her answer can still have hints that can help you decipher her feelings. Some girls won’t give you any extra information, however, some unknowingly do. That is why it won’t hurt to ask such a question. For example, if she describes an individual that seems similar to you, it might not be a coincidence.

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3. Ask Her Who According to Her Is the Ideal Man

Ask Her Who According to Her Is the Ideal Man

For her to have feelings for you, there must be certain aspects that you need to qualify. If there are a lot of things about you that she does not like, the higher the chances are of her not loving you. That is why to get a grasp of the situation, you should ask her who she thinks is the ideal man and what qualities does he have. To an extent, you need (at the very least) to have some qualities the ideal man has. If you have those desirables qualities, there is all the more reason for her to love you (because you have those qualities).

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4. Ask Her Friends

Ask Her Friends

This point isn’t necessarily for everyone since not all of you might be acquainted with her friends. And just being acquaintances is not enough. You need to be friends with her friends so that they feel comfortable answering your questions. Why would her friends tell you anything if they can’t trust you? If you guys aren’t at that stage, it might backfire. Remember that if you’re trying to get to know whether a girl has feelings for you or not without tipping her off, her friends could inform her and ruin it for you. Disclaimer, try avoiding this strategy if there are chances that it will do more harm than good. If you think that her friends are trustworthy enough to keep it a secret, then go for it!

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5. Travel


You usually travel with people whom you feel safe with and whose company you enjoy. By asking her to travel with you (alone), you can get an idea about how she sees you. This tactic doesn’t guarantee an absolute answer; however, it will nonetheless provide a piece of the puzzle. As you collect more pieces, you will get to see the bigger picture. If you don’t want to travel with her, then it goes without saying that you shouldn’t ask her. But if you are fine with either a yes or a no, then feel free to try it. The underlying point, either way, is to gain more information that you can figure out if she loves you.

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6. Ask Her Experience with Love

Ask Her Experience with Love

Often, how people react and speak when you put them on the spot can give you a lot of extra information. People usually don’t get enough time to think about the words they will speak or pay attention to their body language. Take notice of the words coming out of her mouth and her body movement while she does so. How she gives her response can be a missing puzzle piece. Is she excited while she talks? Is she blushing? Or does she seem to be disinterested? A positive/negative reaction can give an idea about how she feels.

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7. First and Current Impression

First and Current Impression

You can ask her covert questions such as what was her initial impression of you and what she thinks now. This can be a good way of finding out how she thinks of you. Don’t miss the opportunity to ask this question since her first impression of you is not as important as how she sees you now. Something that you should be on the lookout for is flattery. When she answers, is she trying to flatter you? This is important to recognize because there is almost always an ulterior motive to flattery. In her case, it should be because she likes you and wants you to make you feel good about yourself.

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8. Does She Want to Be in A Relationship?

Does She Want to Be in A Relationship?

A topic that you should consider discussing with her is being in a relationship. Sometimes we too like the person who likes us back, and sometimes that is not the case. This question can set the tone, regarding the dynamic of your relationship. If she has feelings for you and also wants to be in a relationship with you, she will most likely phrase her answer in such a way that she will subtly give you hints. Make sure to pick up those hints. As mentioned before, this question not only gives you an insight into her feelings for you but also helps you prepare for what might come next.

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9. Ask Her General About Different Topics

Ask Her General About Different Topics

Try asking her questions about different topics. Doing so will help you get to know her better. It will also expose you to a different perspective, one that is unlike yours. However, the reason behind doing so is it see how the clash between your and her perspective turns out. Not implying that there will necessarily be a conflict but a little is bound to occur since you both are two different people. How she responds to such conflict will be a giveaway. We all cherish our views, hence why the way she treats yours is important to note. For example, if she plays it off despite you both having two entirely different viewpoints, do not overlook it.

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10. Ask Her About Her Future Plans

Ask Her About Her Future Plans

Another area for discussion is her plans for the future. This can shed light on how important you are to her and how much she cares about you. If she tries to weave you into her plans without even mentioning you, then know that there is more to it than mere coincidence. Her wanting to include you in her life is a sign of her being in love with you. Take notice of her answers and do not take them lightly, for you are not sure about her feelings for you.

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Except for the very first question, you won’t necessarily get straight answers for any others. This is because of the very nature of the questions. The nature of the answer depends on the type of question asked. These questions are also a lot like individual puzzle pieces. By themselves, they aren’t of much value. However, the same can’t be said about a completed puzzle. Similarly, you won’t find these points helpful if you only refer to one or two. Depending on the situation, you could probably make do with only some but that is not likely going to be the case with all. That is why, as much as your situation permits you, ask as many questions as you can. I hope this article helps you figure out whether or not a girl loves you by asking her questions. Thank you!

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